For couples building a blended family, an engagement session is often about more than just the two of you — it's a chance to celebrate the family you're becoming, kids included. Here's how to plan a session that works well for everyone, including the youngest participants.
Keep the kids' portion shorter
Kids — especially younger ones — have a limited window of patience for photos. We typically recommend planning 15–20 minutes with the whole family included near the start of the session, while everyone's energy is freshest, then continuing with just the couple afterward.
Let the kids be kids
Some of the best family photos come from genuine interaction — a piggyback ride, a tickle fight, kids running ahead on a trail — rather than everyone standing still and smiling on command. We lean into real moments rather than forcing stiff poses, especially with children involved.
Coordinate outfits loosely, not identically
The same "coordinate, don't match" principle from our outfit guide applies here, just extended across more people. Pick a shared colour palette and let each family member's outfit vary within it, rather than dressing everyone identically.
Bring snacks and a small activity
A favourite small toy, book, or snack can be a lifesaver between shots, especially if there's any waiting involved (like a wardrobe change for the adults). Keeping kids occupied during the "downtime" makes the whole session smoother.
Pick a location kids will actually enjoy
A location with some natural things to explore — a pond, a playground nearby, open space to run — tends to keep kids happier and more cooperative than a purely "photogenic but boring for a 6-year-old" spot.
Timing matters even more with kids
Scheduling around nap times and typical energy levels (many families find late morning or golden hour in the evening work better than very early sessions) can make a noticeable difference in how the day goes.
Planning a family-inclusive session?
We're happy to help plan the timing and pacing around your kids' needs. Get in touch to start the conversation.